When read the lyrics of Ray J's single, she laughed ("That's pretty good!") before noting: "Hes obviously angry at something, and I can tell you as someone who was deeply in love with someone who died, thats the angriest youll ever be in your life." That anger might be the culmination of a decade's worth of, ahem, interesting behavior from Ray J following the release of the tape. Since 2007, Ray J has starred in two VH1 shows, one dedicated to his finding love (For The Love of Ray J) and the other about life with his more-famous sister (BrandyandRay J: A Family Business). He's dated everyone from video vixens nicknamed "Super Head" (KarrineSteffans) toWhitney Houston, a relationship that caused infighting in both his own family and hers prior to her death (after which, Ray J was supposedly inconsolable). He also got into a fight with a rapper over a joke made on Twitter (see: his scuffle with Fabulous inLasVegas) and then called into"The Breakfast Club" to deliver one of the most hilarious, incredible, incoherent moments of live braggadocio in recent radio history. He even made a scene of laughing at Kim on Twitter after she asserted that she "wouldn't be defined by [her] past." But for all of Ray J's antics, his rise to fame hasn't been as swift or as high as his ex-girlfriend's. "Many, many times people have their anger come out sideways when theyre not directly dealing with the thing theyre really angry about." "One of the things thats very difficult for people is to watch their ex move on to someone more successful than they are. Kim K sex tape
That goes for anyone," Elliott explained. But she had another theory toexplain Ray J's behavior that may be more subtle: "There was the intervening Whitney Houston thing. He took her death very hard, and this might be one of the things that happens when you have a loss and you havent dealt with other losses: They all kind of come up together." "Many, many times people have their anger come out sideways when theyre not directly dealing with the thing theyre really angry about." In other words, Ray J may not simply be working out only the loss and successes of Kim Kardashain in his life, but other problems, too.
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